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BSF bubbles October 10, 2008

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I had a delightful time with the 2s yesterday.  We had 5 boys, 2 girls,  2 leaders, very few tears and a lot of fun.  Little Cayden asked me during opening if I wanted some “womanade.”  It was delicious.  Then she refilled me with “Pink Womanade” which we both agreed was even better.  And neither one had any carbs or sugar.  BONUS!

Always, ALWAYS when I work with children God teaches me something about my relationship with Him.  Yesterday it was during Large Muscle time.  We went outside and chased bubbles.  We were in a 3 sided courtyard with a slight wind so it took some formational tweaking to figure out which direction to face and blow and where to position the children. 

Each child would fix their eyes on one big bubble…out of hundreds…and chase it to the far reaches.  I positioned myself as goalie on the dangerous sidewalk.  The bubbles would float up the side up the building anyway, and we don’t want 14 tiny Keds tromping through the mulch & flowers so I’d just turn ‘em around and point out 6 dozen more bubbles for them to choose from that were floating safely over the grass. 

This got me thinking about boundaries.  And desirable “bubbles” in life that aren’t always catchable.  No matter how many times the leader said, “Keep your feet on the green grass” and they would look down at their feet on the green grass and at their teacher’s eyes and nod, once their eyes locked on that bubble, they could not be torn away and didn’t have a clue their feet were somehow all of a sudden on the sidewalk or the mulch and they were being turned around.  This is so me.  “How did I get way over here?”

Taiwan

Taiwan

One great thing about 2 year olds is that they are easily distracted.  They don’t mourn the high-floating bubble.  They aren’t even crying when they pop the long-chased after bubble. 

They are quick to look in a different direction and much to their delight discover that there are way more bubbles…enough for me and everyone else too!   Too many for me to pop, even!

Though the sidewalk really wasn’t dangerous, it wasn’t the BEST place for those feet to be.  Though the mulch isn’t expensive or anything, it is just not so respectful to have your feet on it.  Though a 2 year old has a worthy cause and is somewhat obedient just chasing bubbles, the boundaries they stumble on are worthy of a redirect.  May it be so with me, Lord.  May I only chase the exact right bubbles you want for me and help me to let them fly away when it goes where I can’t or shouldn’t get it and not be too too sad.  After all, you are blowing more bubbles for my delight all the time. 

Thank you God.  You really are SO good to me.  Glory Hallel-u-JAH!

 

Alpha Mom Day October 9, 2008

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I feel like an ACTUAL real mom today.

Most days there’s an almost 3 hour window when the family is getting ready.  And I just don’t need that kind of time.  Hubby is up before 6 and wakes up #3 who wants time daily to straighten her wavy blonde locks.  #3 and #4 hit the bus stop at 7:30 at which time #1 and #2 are rising and readying themselves for their bus to Princess Anne at 8:30.  I usually begin getting ready full steam ahead around 7:00 which is not quite enough time to be finished at the 1st bus stop…and then stall out the first time I walk by the computer.  But not today.

Hair Straightened 5th grader has a field trip to Williamsburg today.  The form said in bold italic underlined caps “BUSSES WILL LEAVE AT 7:30 SHARP” so I was up at dawn, like the good Alpha Mom I am Not, fully dressed, with shoes and everything by 7:06.  I even made #1 an egg or four because his braces were hurting so bad.  Look at me!

Now it’s the rest of the marathon day.  BSF children’s department (“Let my people go!”) then fellowship lunch…OH YEAH!  I JUST REMEMBERED I’M SUPPOSED TO BRING CHICKEN!!!!  D’oh.  Then right to work, rehearsal for the weekend and home in time for Thursday night TV of course.

It’s also day #1 of South Beach diet which means gargantuan salad for dinner.  And since when do I know what’s for dinner at 8:17 a.m.?

So, to all you moms out there fully dressed, coifed and made up knowing what’s for dinner at the bus stop every single day…good for you. 

See you next field trip.

 

Holidays–BRING IT! October 8, 2008

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The family birthday season is finally over.  Hallelujah!

Except for Hubby in two weeks and he’s easy.  Steak, cake, massage, done.

Yesterday Oldest turned 14.  He had a list that would piss off Santa.  And it did.

Burnout 3 at Game Stop $14.99

Tony Hawk American Wasteland  $9.99

Futon

$100.00 for clothes at Hotline or Coastal Edge

Wii

Drumset/guitar with lessons

Madden 09

soccer net

basketball net

ipod (not shuffle)

real soccer jerseys that fit me

new drumset for Rockband

A boom box for the garage when working out

new soccer ball

new sk8 board

a long board

cable for my TV

 

Is that it?  No problem.  Oh, wait.  I forgot.  Our last name ISN’T Gates.  Or Trump.  Or even Philbin.  Not to mention we spent the afternoon at the orthodontist.  With 3 count em THREE patients.  Pass the Paxil, please.

I used to LOVE the offspring party season.  We did a choo choo train theme and found the perfect Baskin Robbins ice cream cake.  The cutest pictures were taken under the table that year.  One year was a race car theme and I made a spectacular figure 8 racetrack cake.  We did painting pottery once and I ordered photos of the birthday kid made into confetti www.photofetti.com.  I’ve made birthday muffins, birthday cupcakes, birthday crowns, and birthday bubbles at Gymboree.  But now it’s all about the birthday bling-age.  I am most definately out of my early childhood comfort zone. 

When 14 boy/man came down the stairs just now and spoke, I thought it was my husband for a second.  Boys & toys.  I guess that’s normal.  But I sure miss the wonder of the bow-on-the-head, play-with-the-box days.  Them ‘r gone.  Woo-oo Bye Bye.  In return is the realization that this time next year he will be searching for Driver’s Ed classes.  With three siblings right behind him. 

Come Lord Jesus! 

Before YOUR birthday works for me.

 

doDOdododoDOdodo October 4, 2008

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Something weird is happening.  Something strange and out of the ordinary.  Something that will blow your mind.

I’ve become interested in fashion.

This doesn’t mean that I LOOK like I’m interested in fashion.  Oh, but no, silly fantasizing reader.  Far from it.  In fact I celebrated this amazing discovery admission by making chocolate chip pancakes for the “family.”  This may work against me on the runway.

It all began harmlessly enough with multiple summer episodes of What Not To Wear.  Who can’t love Clinton and Stacey who tell EVERY SIZE of woman how “tiny” their “waist” is when they wear the right clothing.  I mean, “shut up.”

Then a highly respected friend of mine from BSF in Michigan who just happens to be friends with a coworker of mine at NRC  (hello?!  Worlds colliding!)  mentioned her delightful family’s co-operative marathon of Project Runway back in the summer.  My mind opened ever so slightly.  Plus also the lure of lolling about for several hours no doubt played a role.  I mean, time at the beach is way up there, but what to do after tanning because “tanorexic” I am not.   So now I have graduated from why ”comfortable” is a bad word to the person who knows about how to “Holla atcha boy” and that the fashion forward version of Hip Hop is high waisted jeans.  (chuckle) 

I realized yesterday I was morphing from a far-from-caring-about fashion into an unshakable growing interest and desire to watch the people who do care.   I guess there was no turning back once I blew off a planned trip to the grocery store for ice cream to watch the Rachel Zoe project instead.  It’s pronounced “Zo” just so you know…

The full realization hit yesterday when I read Big Mama’s Fashion Friday blog www.thebigmamablog.com and realized WITH JOY that I had purchased her VERY FIRST SUGGESTED LINK!  On Fashion Friday EVE.  Because that’s a key element in fashion.  Timeliness.  Which is a challenge for me in EVERY aspect of life.

So I admit it.  I’m a fashionista wannabe.  I’m this [ ] close to buying a McCall’s pattern and watching The Devil Wears Prada again.  This time with intention.

 

Autumn Test Results October 1, 2008

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You are a energetic, warm, optimistic person. You approach everything with a lot of enthusiasm.When you’re happiest, you are outgoing and expressive . You love celebrations, and you enjoy showing off a little.

You tend to be afraid of change. You are never ready for things to be different.

You find solitude to be the most comforting thing in the world. Being alone with your thoughts feels very peaceful.

Your ideal day is active and full. You like to keep busy with your favorite things, and you appreciate a routine.

You tend to live in the moment. You enjoy whatever is going on, and you don’t obsess over the past or future.